1 & 2 Samuel

 

2 Samuel Chapter 18

Absalom Killed

  • 2Samuel 18:1  And David numbered the people that were with him, and set captains of thousands and captains of hundreds over them. 
  • 2  And David sent forth a third part of the people under the hand of Joab, and a third part under the hand of Abishai the son of Zeruiah, Joab's brother, and a third part under the hand of Ittai the Gittite. And the king said unto the people, I will surely go forth with you myself also. 
  • 3  But the people answered, Thou shalt not go forth: for if we flee away, they will not care for us; neither if half of us die, will they care for us: but now thou art worth ten thousand of us: therefore now it is better that thou succour us out of the city. 

Since they knew the counsel of Ahithophel was to kill David only, they didn't want David to go to battle with them. They felt he was worth more than they. That is what I call loyal dedication to someone.

  • 2Samuel 18:4  And the king said unto them, What seemeth you best I will do. And the king stood by the gate side, and all the people came out by hundreds and by thousands. 
  • 5  And the king commanded Joab and Abishai and Ittai, saying, Deal gently for my sake with the young man, even with Absalom. And all the people heard when the king gave all the captains charge concerning Absalom. 

This may be the real reason David decided not to go out to battle. He would be fighting against his own son and he instructed them to not harm Absalom. This is a heartbreaking conflict that a king would have to see his own son come after him in battle. Absalom wanted his dad to be killed while the king himself wanted to spare the life of his son.

  • 2Samuel 18:6  So the people went out into the field against Israel: and the battle was in the wood of Ephraim; 
  • 7  Where the people of Israel were slain before the servants of David, and there was there a great slaughter that day of twenty thousand men. 
  • 8  For the battle was there scattered over the face of all the country: and the wood devoured more people that day than the sword devoured. 

Not all were killed by the sword but fell into pits, swamps and some accounts of this were that they were killed by wild beasts. Whatever the cause, they were losing the battle and the men of David were winning. I think those that came againt David were fighting against God in trying to take out a king He (God) had anointed to be king.

  • 2Samuel 18:9  And Absalom met the servants of David. And Absalom rode upon a mule, and the mule went under the thick boughs of a great oak, and his head caught hold of the oak, and he was taken up between the heaven and the earth; and the mule that was under him went away. 

The beautiful hair that caused him to be proud was what defeated Absalom. This is so sad though to see people end up this way when other decisions and choices could have caused good instead of evil. Forgiveness for one. To forgive his father was hard considering what happened to his sister but in killing his own brother, that was revenge against his father. He should have stopped and  forgive. His father's heart mourned for both sons. It is hard to forgive the past but we must or it destroys our ability to be fruitful for the Lord and an example of godliness. 

  • 2Samuel 18:10  And a certain man saw it, and told Joab, and said, Behold, I saw Absalom hanged in an oak. 
  • 11  And Joab said unto the man that told him, And, behold, thou sawest him, and why didst thou not smite him there to the ground? and I would have given thee ten shekels of silver, and a girdle. 
  • 12  And the man said unto Joab, Though I should receive a thousand shekels of silver in mine hand, yet would I not put forth mine hand against the king's son: for in our hearing the king charged thee and Abishai and Ittai, saying, Beware that none touch the young man Absalom. 

This person respected the wishes of David concerning Absalom and could not bring himself to kill him no matter how much money he would have been rewarded with. He probably also feared his own life would be taken if he killed Absalom against David's wishes. Joab though had a mind of his own and did what he thought, not what the king thought. Joab killed Abner before so he desires Absalom to die as well. 

  • 2Samuel 18:13  Otherwise I should have wrought falsehood against mine own life: for there is no matter hid from the king, and thou thyself wouldest have set thyself against me. 

He must have not trusted Joab because if he killed Absalom, Joab would be the first person to witness against him when David found out. Joab would not take the blame.

  • 2Samuel 18:14  Then said Joab, I may not tarry thus with thee. And he took three darts in his hand, and thrust them through the heart of Absalom, while he was yet alive in the midst of the oak. 
  • 15  And ten young men that bare Joab's armour compassed about and smote Absalom, and slew him. 
  • 16  And Joab blew the trumpet, and the people returned from pursuing after Israel: for Joab held back the people.
  • 17  And they took Absalom, and cast him into a great pit in the wood, and laid a very great heap of stones upon him: and all Israel fled every one to his tent. 
  • 18  Now Absalom in his lifetime had taken and reared up for himself a pillar, which is in the king's dale: for he said, I have no son to keep my name in remembrance: and he called the pillar after his own name: and it is called unto this day, Absalom's place. 

What a sad story and very hard to read and study. Joab had no fear of killing Absalom in spite of David's command that Absalom be spared. When David hears of it he will mourn and grieve probably blaming himself somewhat.

David Hears of Absalom's Death

  • 2Samuel 18:19  Then said Ahimaaz the son of Zadok, Let me now run, and bear the king tidings, how that the LORD hath avenged him of his enemies. 
  • 20  And Joab said unto him, Thou shalt not bear tidings this day, but thou shalt bear tidings another day: but this day thou shalt bear no tidings, because the king's son is dead. 
  • 21  Then said Joab to Cushi, Go tell the king what thou hast seen. And Cushi bowed himself unto Joab, and ran. 
  • 22  Then said Ahimaaz the son of Zadok yet again to Joab, But howsoever, let me, I pray thee, also run after Cushi. And Joab said, Wherefore wilt thou run, my son, seeing that thou hast no tidings ready? 
  • 23  But howsoever, said he, let me run. And he said unto him, Run. Then Ahimaaz ran by the way of the plain, and overran Cushi. 

So we have one man wanting to go give David the news of victory so bad and another just following orders. At least Joab respects the fact that David's son is dead and does not believe it is proper to give tidings at this time. Ahimaaz was so excited to bring David news so they both went, Ahimaaz outrunning David.

  • 2Samuel 18:24  And David sat between the two gates: and the watchman went up to the roof over the gate unto the wall, and lifted up his eyes, and looked, and behold a man running alone. 
  • 25  And the watchman cried, and told the king. And the king said, If he be alone, there is tidings in his mouth. And he came apace, and drew near. 
  • 26  And the watchman saw another man running: and the watchman called unto the porter, and said, Behold another man running alone. And the king said, He also bringeth tidings. 
  • 27  And the watchman said, Me thinketh the running of the foremost is like the running of Ahimaaz the son of Zadok. And the king said, He is a good man, and cometh with good tidings. 
  • 28  And Ahimaaz called, and said unto the king, All is well. And he fell down to the earth upon his face before the king, and said, Blessed be the LORD thy God, which hath delivered up the men that lifted up their hand against my lord the king. 
  • 29  And the king said, Is the young man Absalom safe? And Ahimaaz answered, When Joab sent the king's servant, and me thy servant, I saw a great tumult, but I knew not what it was. 
  • 30  And the king said unto him, Turn aside, and stand here. And he turned aside, and stood still. 

Ahimaaz wanted to share the message but he had no message that David was really desiring to hear. Good lesson to consider. Wait until we are ready with the right words and the right facts before spreading messages that someone is waiting to hear. The news media in their efforts to have good ratings are quick to report news but they do not always wait for the correct facts to back up their story. Riots and anger is sometimes stirred up among those that are just waiting for the right opportunity to cause trouble, sometimes paid by those that are behind it. After investigations and finding out true facts many times the facts are not what was originally reported. Sometimes people even get killed because they believed the first report and reacted badly. Let us be bearers of truth.

David's Grief

  • 2Samuel 18:31  And, behold, Cushi came; and Cushi said, Tidings, my lord the king: for the LORD hath avenged thee this day of all them that rose up against thee. 
  • 32  And the king said unto Cushi, Is the young man Absalom safe? And Cushi answered, The enemies of my lord the king, and all that rise against thee to do thee hurt, be as that young man is. 
  • 33  And the king was much moved, and went up to the chamber over the gate, and wept: and as he went, thus he said, O my son Absalom, my son, my son Absalom! would God I had died for thee, O Absalom, my son, my son! 

David was so moved by grief that he would have been willing to die instead of Absalom. If Absalom only would have known how much his own father loved him. It's a very sad story when a child turns against his own parents. Sometimes it is the fault of the parent, sometimes it is just a child going the wrong way and perhaps being influenced by bad friends. It is sad to see though no matter what the cause. All this was prophesied by Nathan the prophet when David sinned.

David repented of that sin and he is with the Lord now. I notice in the New Testament that nothing bad is sad about David at all. This shows us the wonderful grace of God that comes to us by Jesus, paying the debt for all of the sins of those that repent and turn to Him for salvation. I hope that while Absalom was still alive hanging by his hair on that tree that he made things right with God. Only God knows. I believe King Saul had the opportunity to make things right with God too. He too was alive for a while before dying after he was slain in battle. DC

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